Posted on
10 September 2021 by
Iain under
Thinking Out Loud
The Walls Are Down
Facets of cut stone charged by the light
I am blinded by your luminescence
The tonal qualities of your voice come to me in colour
I am humbled by your contrast
The harmonies of shade and hue are strikingly subtle
I am rewarded by the essence of your rapport
The aroma of home that emanates from your pores
I am engulfed by the scent of your skin
The whisper of your intonation and inflection
I am spellbound by your articulation
Within the walls of my world, I have importance
My words and my meanings are solid things
They direct the path I steer and shape my future
Within the walls of my world, I sail alone
Look to the horizon of your world and wonder what may be
Look beyond the vanishing point and free your mind
Existence beyond your world is:
Real & Ephemeral
Solid & Diaphanous
Opaque & Translucent
populous & Empty
Forthwith & Eventual
Allow the wind to carry the vibrations of the music of my soul to you
and feel it raise the hairs across your skin as it travels your whole body
Seek not for a word to describe this sensation, as the part of you that recognises me has no need for the restrictions of language
It is free of rules, pronunciation, and grammar, of tongue clicks and mouth contortions, of alphabets and practised sounds
It is free to sense, to feel, to imagine and to know its own kind at the deepest level
It is neither right nor wrong
Nor is it good or bad, benefit or deficit, windfall or debt
For the reality in the soul of the world is that everything has the potential to manifest in every way imaginable, and so it is all of these things and none of these things simultaneously
Reach out and sense my presence
Breath in and taste my scent
Open your heart and feel mine beating
Free your mind and touch my thoughts
Tomorrow is yet to be drawn
Crepuscular motions must play out first
Transient rotations will have their sway
The veil is cast before rebirth
Your entry will cast you anew
Your birth will come with a new sun
Your direction of travel is yet to be chosen
The rebirth will light your way
I am to your East
But the sense of my heart will be at all compass points
I have destroyed the walls of my world to build them anew
And I will not lay a single stone until your arrival
Whilst this may leave me open to attack, I care not,
for if you are not open to attack you are not open to anything new
So, the walls are down, and I wait…
© Iain Merchant 2021
Posted on
19 August 2021 by
Iain under
Thinking Out Loud
Tide
I am alone, and yet this place is crowded
I am invisible and yet seen by all
I am so full, and yet I feel empty
I know where I am, and yet I feel lost
I feel separate from those around me
I feel voiceless yet able to shout
I ask all if they’re ok, but no one asks me
They assume that I’m always ok
I am perceived as strong in character
Strong in mind and heart
Strong in my views and opinions
Unafraid to speak my truth and stand my ground
I am seen as combative and forceful
Why?
Why can nobody see beyond the armour?
Why does nobody care to uncover more truth?
Why is this path so hard and so lonely?
Why can I see them so clearly?
Why do they seek my support without offering theirs?
Why are they happy to take and yet less so to give?
Why?
Why can’t I find the owner of my missing wing?
Why can’t I relinquish the shield and sword for a while?
Why can’t I lay my head in a welcome embrace?
Why is there no limit to what I can endure?
Why can’t I just give in and disappear?
Why?
Tomorrow is another day
You never know what’s around the corner
Right place and right time
Everything comes to those who wait
I know these and all such well-meaning platitudes
I live them I breathe them I am them
I stay positive as much as I am able
But I feel as if I am fighting the tide
The tide is strong
Treading water is boring
I need a direction in order to swim
I need a purpose to find my stroke
I need a reason to reach land
The tide is strong
© Iain Merchant 2021
Posted on
3 August 2021 by
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Thinking Out Loud
Not Knowing
Certainty…
We need it
We seek it out
We create it from what happens
It solidifies with what is said
We trust our experience
I believed I knew who you were
Out of nowhere, you proved me wrong!
You faded away under the pressure of work
I equally faded as you requested in support
You didn’t return when you said you would
I waited and worried and wondered
Eventually, concerned, I make contact
I am hit right between the eyes by a bullet of dismission
An explanation is offered that doesn’t explain
Information is provided that fails to inform
I got a reply, but I didn’t get an answer!
I can’t believe my character judgement was so wrong
I find it hard to think badly of you, even though this is not fair
You are either lying now or you were fake all along!
Neither option has any gratification
Neither option offers any salve for the wound
Should I ask for clarification?
If I have to ask at all, that is an answer in itself, is it not?
I don’t want this to be true
I don’t want this to have happened
I don’t want this wound
I don’t want what I am left with…
Not knowing
© Iain Merchant 2021
Posted on
27 July 2021 by
Iain under
Thinking Out Loud
It’s Time
Heartfelt hopes dashed on the altar of dreams
Significant wishes shattered on the shoreline of reality
Specific goals destroyed in the furnace of truth
Life’s dreams annihilated in the whirlwinds of time
Recalibration looks like procrastination
The well of despair that surrounds a lack of achievement
Joy becomes just a word rather than an experience
Self-worth transcends into history and fades
You simply can’t fail if you never attempt anything
Starting is easy, finishing is the key to learning
Learning is the key to growth
Growth is experienced through achievement
Don’t pay lip service to the process
So, you fell over last time – so what!
Stand up, brush yourself off and go again
This time, whatever happens,
go further than you did before… minimum!
If you aren’t going to adopt that attitude, you have failed already…
There is no maybe
There is no might do
There is one day
There is no try
You are either going to do it or you’re not
Each of those outcomes exists on a different road
Stop hanging out at the junction pretending
Choose a road and walk it
You have a thousand excuses
You know them all so well
Because they are always available when you want them,
you think they are your friends…
You are deluding yourself
But it is clear to all others
These liars you call on are not your friends
They do no serve you or have your best interests at heart!
They are deflectors, deniers and deceivers
They do not want you to grow or achieve
They desire one thing, and one thing only
To keep you exactly where you are – deluded
They fear losing their control over you
They use fear to keep you placated in mediocrity
They keep you craving the commonplace
They entice you with the ordinary
They convince you that near enough, is good enough
Truth is; it never is, never was and never will be!
Do you have the courage to break free of your own lies?
Do you truly want to experience more?
Do you want to fill your time with something of value?
Do you want to step up to the podium of experience?
Do you want to feel what you have asked for repeatedly?
Do you want to use your latent abilities rather than imprison them?
Do you want to achieve in action, that which you say in words?
Do you want to prove your words have meaning and value?
Do you want to honour your commitments?
Do you?
Or
Would you rather just pretend?
Would you rather accept your own lies?
Would you rather relinquish your future to untruths?
Would you rather other people know your words have no follow-through?
What you say is not what you mean, and what you mean, is not what you say?
How much do you really value the importance of keeping your word?
Doing nothing, doing something and doing the right thing at the right time, will all generate results…
The first two will generally keep you in the cycle of failure because they are neither focused nor pragmatic
Only the latter will drive you forwards, increase your learning and understanding, produce achievements and self-worth, along with the enthusiasm and motivation to repeat the process to experience the joy again!
This truth requires no long drawn out thinking, which is simply a pathway to avoidance and deflection…
This truth requires only action, diligence and commitment to finish the process, and the rest, amazingly, will simply take care of itself…
Now you know this, there is only one other piece of information you will ever need
IT’S TIME!
© Iain Merchant 2021
Posted on
15 July 2021 by
Iain under
Thinking Out Loud
Homogeneous
The farther away I go, the closer I feel
The further I feel from you, the nearer we are
Connected
When I close my eyes, I can see you
Only in silence can I hear you
Only in my solitude can I feel you
Linked
In my dreams, you are a reality
In my reality, you are a dream
Associated
You live only in my memories
Yet you exist in my future
Correlations
You were a passing moment to the cosmos
You were the universe to me
You shaped the world that I inhabit
You filter the thoughts I entertain
You critique the words I use
You feedback on the attitude I display
You are not with me, but part of who I am
Combined
I cannot recall who I was before you
I cannot recall a time without you
I cannot, and I will not
Emulsified
Evolution does not operate in reverse
Progress does not head backwards
Expansion does not result in shrinkage
Transformation is metamorphosis and renewal
I was, became, we are
We were, became, I am
Amalgamated
Intertwining the double helix
Genetic mutation complete
One plus one equals three
Assimilated
© Iain Merchant 2021
Posted on
25 June 2021 by
Iain under
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In Plain Sight
To hear you talk it’s all love & light
You desire only to inspire and please the Lord!
The truth is very different though, isn’t it?
Your presentation is a slick, well-practised demo
of who you wish you were
Sufficiently convincing to get the benefit of the doubt…
Sufficiently dazzled by the spotlight,
we can all mistake an act for a reality!
Theatre relies heavily on this deception…
The truth is very different though, isn’t it?
Once the cracks appear, the façade quickly falls!
The need to dominate conversations
The need to micromanage until you become the bottleneck in any project
The need to deflect responsibility when things unravel
Your patterns are easy to see once the fog has lifted
And, once seen, they are easy to predict
What to do when you are caught in the light?
Belittle, demean, condescend and insult,
but all from a total pretence of considered advice!
The ‘holier than thou’ stance of the weakest of
intelligent and articulate individuals
Making yourself feel better about who you are,
By trying to make someone else feel less about themselves
The worst of deceits!
The truth is an unremitting mirror, isn’t it?
I see you…
And, it is only a matter of time before others do too
Your mask will slip as it always has, whenever there is a critique!
It will come and you can’t fight it, because that is the real you
The truth is a nightmare at times
But for the moment, the deception is still alive for some,
and fading for others
It is a sadness that you feel so little yet project so much
It is a sadness that you offer stories of your ability to be humble,
to convince yourself that you are
It is a sadness that you are unable and unwilling to face your truth
It is a sadness that you hide behind a faith, rather than use it to grow
Be cautious with your theatre, you are in plain sight!
© Iain Merchant 2021
Posted on
19 June 2021 by
Iain under
Thinking Out Loud
Lockdown Harbinger
Empty streets & quiet roads
Even the bird’s sense something has changed
Their tunes hold a note of question in their rhythm
Personal space no longer applies
We all have the same two-metre dance
Lip reading a thing of the past
The dystopian drama playing out throughout the land
28 days later seems more possible than ever
Waiting for the infected to turn!
Lockdown fever raised the demons in your head
Gives them a voice and the room to use it
Offers their devisive words credence
Chip, chip, chip away at your sanity
What do I do with all this silence?
Solitude from the crowd is my raison d’etre
My basis, my rationale, my very purpose
But solitude, when there is no crowd, is strange
Solitude transformed into feeling alone
Alone is sometimes lonely
Formed thoughts can deform in the vacuum
The empty reply in the echo
The soulless silence of solo
The general hubbub of the coffee shop
The idle chatter of people seeing old friends
The banter of the market traders hawking their wares
The bustle of the sale in progress
I miss avoiding those places
I miss skirting the crowd
I miss seeking out the silence
I miss my choices
When the big one comes,
this is how it will start
Our weaknesses on show, for all to see
Our arrogance providing no armour
Our lack of humility & empathy will offer no resolution
Our efforts to find a vaccine will not always succeed
Virus’s like a host, and they very much like us…
Unseen
Tasteless
Unscented
Silent
Virulent
Fatal
The question is not whether
No, no, no!
The question is…
When?
© Iain Merchant
Posted on
29 May 2021 by
Iain under
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I
I cry
I Am
I Become
I Manifest
I Understand
I Reminisce
I Fade
I Was
© Iain Merchant
Posted on
22 May 2021 by
Iain under
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Flame
Metal is already strong
but is tempered to greater strength by the flames
So were you
Water can reshape rocks
But transcends itself in the flames
So have you
The dark can build a palace of fear
But it is reborn as light in the flames
So are you
Is she a friend to the flame or just rewarded by the flame they ask?
I answer…
You must alter your thinking, for she is the flame.
© Iain Merchant 2021
Posted on
14 May 2021 by
Iain under
Thinking Out Loud
Preach
If you like to preach
You ‘talk the talk’
If you want to reach
Just ‘walk the walk’
Don’t tell me what I should do
Just show me by example
Those that do are very few
An incredibly tiny sample
I like when people talk to me
Talking at me though, not so much
Maybe you need to preach to thee
And stop using others as your crutch
I don’t need your words nor instruction
Nor did I seek out your advice
Your belief’s history is full of destruction
Proved right about as often as dice
I respect your beliefs are your choice
But, you seem to assume it’s my duty to care
In preaching it is clear you rejoice
Even when nobody asked you to share
Your rights to your views should be treasured
My rights to my own are selfsame
You should try making your ministry measured
Stop making enlightenment your game
I am an Atheist seeking an answer
That has evidence attached to the claim
Not just, a shout out to an old Necromancer
With blood magic and issues of blame
Don’t dance around my questions with lies
Don’t avoid my sincerity with prayer
Don’t articulate just to sound wise
Evidence the what, when, how, and the where
I get the who, and the why, from the Bible
Some fundamental reason we’re here
A reward if we’re good and not liable
A promise that someone’s always near
I see the benefit of wanting it true
The wish that the stories are real
A world where pure love can renew
A world where a creator can heal
But whilst you continue to wait for the magic
Thousands of children will die of bone cancer
You will agree this is both unfair & tragic
But from on-high, there is never an answer
This dichotomy repeated on a global scale
Omnipotence, it would seem, just a word
Omnipresence, it would seem, always fails
Omniprevalence, it would seem, just absurd
So, please believe what you wish and embrace it
irregardless of others’ opinions
Hold firm with your views. Never quit
Your heart and mind are your only dominions
But as for sharing your views unrequested
In a tone that suggests we’re all wrong
Be prepared for your facts to be bested
When without evidence you come on too strong
Just because you speak in a tone soft and kind
It is clear that you have decided you’re teaching
When no one asked you to indoctrinate their mind
Which are the shortcomings of unrequested preaching
If requested, you are of course free to enlighten to flock
If sought out, it’s your duty to explain
When you force it upon others, it’s their right you to mock
Unwanted preaching, about anything, is just pain
Who wants a sermon, not that many I’m sure
But who wants to give one, well that’s many
You should never use love to make another endure
But apologies, well I’ve never heard any
There is a time and a place for every belief
Just as there are classrooms for each faith to teach
To stop your wares from being pushed would be a blessed relief
Just try waiting to be asked before you preach
© Iain Merchant 2021